The public speaking lesson you never had | DK . | TEDxNelson

TEDx Talks

TEDx Talks

19 min, 15 sec

A detailed exploration of public speaking techniques and personal experiences to inspire and guide effective and engaging presentations.

Summary

  • The speaker discusses the fear and excitement of public speaking, sharing personal stories and professional experience in coaching.
  • Key concepts of Grace, Credibility, and Resonance are introduced as the foundational elements of impactful public speaking.
  • Practical advice on body language, story crafting, emotional connection, and psychological preparation is provided.
  • A Jedi mind trick involving a breathing exercise is shared to help speakers manage nervousness and reframe it as excitement.

Chapter 1

Introduction to Public Speaking

0:10 - 1 min, 15 sec

The opening segment introduces the topic of public speaking and sets the stage for discussing the speaker's experience and credentials.

The opening segment introduces the topic of public speaking and sets the stage for discussing the speaker's experience and credentials.

  • The speaker poses a scenario of speaking in front of a large audience to ignite creative action.
  • The audience's potential apprehension towards public speaking is acknowledged.
  • The speaker introduces themselves and their experience with TEDx Wellington and coaching notable individuals.

Chapter 2

Personal Journey and Challenges

1:37 - 1 min, 40 sec

The speaker shares their personal journey and challenges, focusing on their hearing impairment and how it influenced their public speaking skills.

The speaker shares their personal journey and challenges, focusing on their hearing impairment and how it influenced their public speaking skills.

  • The speaker was born with a hearing impairment, leading to speech therapy during childhood.
  • Despite hearing deficiencies and multiple ear surgeries, they pursued public speaking.
  • The speaker turns their listening skill into an advantage for speaking.

Chapter 3

Grace in Public Speaking

5:24 - 4 min, 17 sec

The speaker dives into the concept of Grace, focusing on the physical aspects of public speaking and how to manage body language.

The speaker dives into the concept of Grace, focusing on the physical aspects of public speaking and how to manage body language.

  • Grace is about the delivery of speech rather than the content.
  • Common issues like hip bop, one-legged walking, and swiveling are addressed with the 'soft rock star pose'.
  • The speaker advises on managing hand gestures and the disadvantage of using scripts.

Chapter 4

Credibility in Storytelling

11:09 - 3 min, 33 sec

The speaker explains the importance of credibility, sharing tips on storytelling and crafting messages without relying on bullet points.

The speaker explains the importance of credibility, sharing tips on storytelling and crafting messages without relying on bullet points.

  • Credibility is about the substance and storytelling aspect of the presentation.
  • TED Talks have raised audience expectations, requiring speakers to enhance their delivery.
  • Narrative forms, humanizing information, and avoiding bullet points are emphasized.

Chapter 5

Resonance and Emotional Connection

14:53 - 1 min, 53 sec

The speaker discusses the role of resonance in public speaking, focusing on the emotional connection with the audience.

The speaker discusses the role of resonance in public speaking, focusing on the emotional connection with the audience.

  • Resonance involves the emotional impact of the speech on the audience.
  • The speaker criticizes the lack of emotional expression in presentations and stresses the need for appropriate emotive cues.
  • Audiences mirror the emotions of the speaker, making it crucial to convey the right feelings.

Chapter 6

Overcoming Nervousness

17:29 - 1 min, 32 sec

The final segment offers a strategy for overcoming nervousness, using a Jedi mind trick to help speakers find their calm and excitement.

The final segment offers a strategy for overcoming nervousness, using a Jedi mind trick to help speakers find their calm and excitement.

  • A breathing exercise is introduced to help calm nerves by resetting the parasympathetic system.
  • The speaker reframes nervousness as excitement to psychologically empower speakers.
  • The breathing technique is linked with the mantra 'You're not nervous, you're excited.'

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