Coach Lee explains why testing your ex is a critical step in determining if they truly miss you and if a reconciliation is possible.

• Use the no contact rule to see if your ex misses you.
• Avoid the friend zone as it rarely works out and is more hurtful.
• Let your ex experience life without you and see if they reach out.

Coach Lee discusses analyzing your ex's response to determine their level of interest and commitment to rekindling the relationship.

• Assess if your ex can stay away for a long period, which indicates their feelings.
• Observe their enthusiasm when they start interacting with you again.
• A weak response from your ex should lead you to proceed with caution.

Coach Lee emphasizes the need to determine if your ex's intentions to return to the relationship are genuine and how to handle their approach.

• Be mindful if your ex is just testing the waters without real commitment.
• Ensure your ex is making progress in appreciating you before getting back together.
• Move slowly and require your ex to work on earning you back.

Coach Lee discusses the importance of balanced attraction dynamics in the relationship and how to test for equality.

• Check if the relationship dynamics are balanced or leaning in your favor.
• Ensure that your ex is showing a high level of attraction and effort.
• Make your ex work to re-establish an equal level of attraction.

Coach Lee stresses the significance of your ex's willingness to earn back the relationship and the steps to take if they fail to show it.

• Your ex should be eager to earn you back and prove their commitment.
• Be prepared to end things if your ex doesn't meet this expectation.
• Stand strong in your demands for a committed and respectful relationship.